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A Heartbreaking Suicide Pact: The Tragic Story of Two Friends

  • Writer: Robin Lyons
    Robin Lyons
  • Jun 13
  • 3 min read

Updated: Jun 26

The Dangers of Despair


Two friends, navigating life after high school, found themselves faced with overwhelming despair. They grappled with questions about their future and, tragically, began discussing suicide as a possible solution. This is a true crime story that reflects the devastating consequences of mental health struggles and a suicide pact.


I once worked with a woman who, despite being far from high school age, often seemed troubled. Life hadn’t unfolded as she had hoped. After she left the school district where we both worked, she and a male friend made a suicide pact. Although it differed from the pact in this case, the outcomes were similarly tragic. One person lost their life, while the other could not follow through with the plan. My heart carries a permanent sadness for her.


The Pact and Its Horrifying Consequences


Returning to the young friends, they cemented their intentions through a pact. They wrote heartfelt letters to their loved ones. In a chilling decision, one of the girls legally purchased a handgun along with the necessary ammunition.


When the father of one girl heard a gunshot, he immediately rushed to the scene. He found his daughter in tears, holding the gun. Tragically, her friend lay on the bed with a fatal gunshot wound. Their plan was to be discovered together on the bed, surrounded by flowers. The flowers were there, adding to the tragic scene, which seemed almost unbearable.


The girl's father contacted emergency services, honestly stating that his daughter had shot her friend. The deceased friend had told his daughter that she couldn’t pull the trigger herself. The young woman agreed to shoot her friend first and then herself. However, when it came time to pull the trigger on herself, she simply couldn’t do it.


The Aftermath: Arrest and Reflection


Emergency personnel, along with law enforcement officers, swiftly arrived at the scene. They arrested the young woman and took her into custody. This tragic situation was made even more painful as only one of the girls survived. The parents of the deceased girl spoke to the prosecutors, expressing that they did not view this incident as murder. They advocated for a plea deal of manslaughter instead.


During the sentencing phase, the judge remarked,


“This case is monumentally sad, and I acknowledge the families on both sides here today. There are no winners; everyone will leave the courtroom today heartbroken.”

This sentiment encapsulated the collective grief surrounding this situation. The 21-year-old woman was sentenced to one to 15 years in prison, which included trauma treatment.


While in prison, the young woman expressed deep remorse for her actions. She spoke sincerely and consistently about her regret. The impact of her decision will forever haunt her, and it serves as a poignant reminder of the fragility of young lives caught in despair.


Understanding the Implications of Suicide Pacts


The heartbreaking story of these two friends raises significant questions about mental health awareness. Suicide pacts are deeply concerning because they often stem from feelings of isolation and hopelessness. It is vital for young people and their families to seek help from mental health professionals if they feel overwhelmed.


When individuals discuss suicide openly, it can sometimes create a dangerous camaraderie. Friends may push one another toward tragic outcomes instead of encouraging their peers to seek help. It is crucial to foster an environment where individuals feel safe discussing their feelings without judgment.


Resources for Support


If you or someone you know is struggling with thoughts of suicide, it is essential to reach out for help. Numerous resources are available, including hotlines, therapy, and support groups. The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is an essential resource, providing 24/7 support.


Remember, you are not alone. Help is available, and there are people who genuinely want to support you through difficult times. Please take these emotions seriously.



In reflection, the story of these two friends serves as a grave reminder of the importance of mental health. Seeking help, having open conversations, and understanding that despair can lead to tragic outcomes is crucial. We must ensure that those struggling with mental health know they have support and resources available. Take a stand against silence and encourage those around you to reach out for help when they need it most.


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All data and information provided is for informational and research purposes only and not intended to malign any religion, ethnic group, club, organization, company, or individual. Criminal cases may have been appealed or verdicts overturned since I researched the case. All information is provided on an as-is basis.

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